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January 31, 2013

A Rural Journal: {Forgiveness}


Letting go of past hurts and bitterness is difficult.

Even if there is no apology, no sense of closure -- 

standing stubbornly on the same side of the fence

for months, years --

keeps peace and contentedness out,

pain and bitterness in.

54 comments:

  1. Yes, you are right! Wise words! Besides, you don't forgive for their benefit, you do it for yours!

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  2. Well, hopefully for both our benefits. :)

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  3. indeed.. Thanks for this beautiful Post..
    Love!

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  4. True true my friend. HUGS Love the pic. B

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  5. Set it free. Cast it upon the wind and you will find the freedom comes from within.

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  6. So very true. It's a wonderful feeling of release of self once you forgive.

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  7. Definitely something I'm working on!

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  8. I LOVE that quote, Nancy, and it is so TRUE. One of the good things about getting older is that you finally learn some important truths...at least some of us do. :)

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  9. Love.love.love. your new look!!! Forgiving sets you free...not forgiving takes up a lot of energy...life lessons ;)

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  10. Well, I still won't forgive my Son in law until he apologizes. That's my story and I'm sticking to it.

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  11. Wow, very true words.
    I do like your new layout, I've been blog hopping on my phone, and things look different there.

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  12. so true nancy...i have this in my life, one person and i can't let go. it's a heavy weigh, you need to be a very strong person to carry it, and to let it go!!

    gorgeous image, a perfect fit!!

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  13. This is lovely. And it is true. Not forgiving will rot your heart. Forgiving before you are asked will set you free. Thanks for this.

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  14. This is so true Nancy. Forgiveness is so important - both asking and giving. Beautiful photo.

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  15. Thank you for such wonderful words of wisdom today......so very true...We really free ourselves when we forgive others....
    Love the photo and your processing...

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  16. That is oh so true. I've learned to forgive and just move on.

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  17. I really felt your post in my heart Nancy. Forgiveness is so hard sometimes and just when you think you have it something will happen that brings the anger and bitterness back to the forefront. It is a challenge each day!
    Hope you have been well while I was absent from the blogging scene these past few months? Missed you and your posts a lot! I hope this is going to be a better year for me and I will find the time to visit and post more often!
    Tina xo

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  18. How true, Nancy! I have learned to forgive. Love that quote.

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  19. this one is so hard for me. easier to forgive/excuse a corporation than a person.

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  20. Beautiful photo! Forgiveness is something I really struggle with. I know that's not a good thing. I'm working on it. Happy Thursday! :)

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  21. This is a difficult one to deal with Nancy. I have found that if we give it time, forgiving may be easier then. But yes, do it for yourself first, then move forward.

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  22. First...absolutely LOVELY image and editing, Nancy! Second....wonderful words, truly spoken. Third...didn't you have an earlier post about not forgiving? Is this a changed view or.... ;-)

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    1. Not a changed view -- I hold grudges and I have difficulty with forgiveness. But I'm trying very hard.

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    2. Move over, Nancy, you're taking up the whole couch!

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  23. It took me a long time to learn this and I can tell you it is the absolute truth...

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  24. Wonderful inspirational post and marvelous photography for Cool Clicks ^_^

    Carol of A Creative Harbor ^_^

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  25. It's so true, but a tough truth to accept sometimes. Beautiful photo!

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  26. Lovely colours in this photo.

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  27. I needed to read this! Thanks and following you back!

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  28. A very beautiful shot, and the words are so true.

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  29. ...and it frees us to just move on with whatever it is we are really supposed to be doing.

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  30. and then something wonderful this way comes...

    :)

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  31. It is hard to do, but that quote sums it up perfectly. You are a prisoner if you can't let go of the bitterness.

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  32. what's more difficult is when someone won't accept an apology leaving everything sorta up in the air. I've found out, the hard way, all we can do is apologize, as forgiveness and move on. I hate dwelling on negative stuff and have said good-bye to "friends" because I found out they only had tolerance when I agreed with them. When I disagreed, they weren't tolerant.
    So be it.
    Head 'em up and move 'em out! -grin-

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    1. years ago a teacher in high school said all you can do is apologize and ask for forgiveness. Then it is in the court of the forgivee...you have done all you can do.( hopefully sincerely) If they choose not to , or to forgive, that is that.

      So many things in life could be resolved if forgiveness was accepted and acknowledged. This makes me even more grateful for the true forgiveness offered by God...

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  33. Free is a very good word, hoping you find yours in the path you're walking through forgiveness... xo {{hugs}}

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  34. So true.......but i think the difficult thimg in life.....i try and do my best......love love love Ria...xxx...

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  35. A cool Click with a cool thought♫ My effort is here: http://lore-eleven.blogspot.com/2013/01/curve-here.html

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  36. A hard thing t learn, but true. We keep ourselves from today by holding yesterday's grudges. I love the photo.

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  37. Very wise words, I'm glad you are trying even though it is difficult!

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  38. Oh, this is so true...this is the one thing I hate about myself...I have a hard time letting go.

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  39. Forgiving is not always easy, but the photo is lovely!

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  40. well this hit home in a big way! Cool photo!

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  41. beautiful, image and words. Hugs and Thank you for sharing at the hop :-)

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  42. Wonderful photo and post.

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  43. Wow, this is very good! It takes a lot of work especially if the hurt is very deep.

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  44. I love that quote. It is so true.

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  45. Hi Nancy,
    So true!
    I'm kicking off a brand new blog hop on Superbowl Sunday called the Creative HomeAcre Hop! I would love to have you join the fun at:
    http://www.theselfsufficienthomeacre.com/2013/02/the-creative-homeacre-hop.html

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  46. great quote to live by.
    so true.
    xx

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  47. Exactly. And the photograph that goes with is wonderful..

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